I heard this song by Bruno Mars ‘Just The Way You Are’ and it really resonated with me — I am always asking Scotty how I look (just like many wives and girlfriends out there) and it frustrates him to no end. I just think Men don’t think like we do — and the media messages that are designed to lure us in are tough to live up to. Personally I will never be at the point where I think  ‘I look perfect’ — Because not only is beauty in the eyes of the beholder so is the definition of PERFECTION.